Do not be a clone

If order for other people to follow you, you must have:

  • clarity on where you're going (vision)
  • conviction on what you believe (values)

Create the space to think critically for yourself. Have the courage to develop your own beliefs. Build a community of peers who can challenge and push you.

Don't adopt someone else's belief without first thinking for yourself.











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