Give people room to change
Don't freeze them in an old snapshot. "The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change." — Carl Rogers, On Becoming a Person You know that feeling when someone still treats you like the person you were five years ago? It's suffocating. And I do it to others without noticing. I file people under one moment — a bad meeting, a dropped ball — and quietly hold them there. But people grow when someone lets them. A fixed opinion becomes a cage they can't climb out of. The kindest thing you can offer is a clean slate, more than once. What if the person in front of you isn't the person in your memory?