Compete With Yourself

Authenticity is the greatest strength of any leader. 

We do best as humans when we focus on doing more of what we are good at.

It is human nature to look at someone else and say, “I don’t have x.” “They are better at y than me.”

By all means, look to others for inspiration and learning. But don’t reject who you are in the process. 

Compete with yourself above all else.











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