Combating cynicism

When you combat cynicism, you need to know its source.

Dig deeper with most cynics and you find a frustrated idealist. This person often made the mistake of taking their values and converting them into expectations. When people let them down, they felt hurt and disappointed.

"Burnout" does not come from working too hard. There are social workers and teachers who work harder than anyone else in society until they are 80 years old and never "burnout." This lack of "burnout" comes from having an accurate view of human nature.

If you don't over romanticize people, then you do not feel great harm and hurt when people let you down.

Thank you, PS.







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