Remain you, only refined

Our world is built on averages. School and work have been built on the concept of fitting in. Teachers and employers ask "Show me how you're like everyone else (how you've successfully fit in), but still better than them (slightly better than average)."

Our pursuit of being the same, only slightly better, has reduced our dreams to be slightly better than the people around us, rather than the best version of ourselves.

Value individuality and value your strengths more than you value fitting in with the average.


Thank you, TR.











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